Tsebo and Tshwanelo Molahlwe have had many questions since their parents passed away. The brother and sister lost their father in 2019 and their mother in 2020, while their brother died in 2015. Since the tragedies happened, things haven’t been going well for the siblings. They decided to reach out to Thembi and get some of their burning questions answered.
Tsebo said: “I would like to connect mostly to my brother so that he can tell us what happened and hopefully his children watch the show, so they have closure.”
An angry father
Thembi got to the yard and went straight to work. She told Tsebo that she’s with her late family members and informed her that her late father wants to walk around the house to point a few things out. He spoke about having started renovations when he was still alive.
“He’s asking why it is not complete,” Thembi said. The father added that he left them with money, so completing the house shouldn’t have been a problem.
Thembi was visibly shaken. “I’m trying to calm myself down so that I can deliver the message as kind as I can, right. But your dad is not kind. Your dad is fighting. The one thing that he keeps saying to me is betrayal,” she told the siblings.
She told them that there’s frustration on the part of their late brother. Thembi aska why the late brother’s kids were allowed to leave the house to stay with their mother.
“That’s his question right now because his kids are suffering, and the dad witnesses it all the time.” The blame fell on Tshwanelo because, according to the late brother and father, he was supposed to take care of the children.
Tsebo and Tshwanelo get their answers
Tsebo then brought up the fact that they lost their mother, father and brother through a common illness. “So, we’re asking ourselves those questions about what’s going on”, she said. Their father, who was still angry, shared the following through Thembi: “With regards to your mother, stop saying that your mother was sick and just died. Stop that from today. I owe your mother nothing. I married your mother with respect.”
He then pointed out that the mother was supposed to be cleansed after he passed away and to wear mourning clothes. It seems like that never happened.
“I took her and told her that she was going to stay with me here because she didn’t respect me.”
Thembi then explained that Tsebo and Tshwanelo’s late father was present and never abandoned his home.
Ask for forgiveness
“After his passing, he saw that his wife no longer did things according to the way they both agreed. Also, when he saw her spirituality, he realised that his wife did not mourn for him.”
The father was also wondering if the wife would move on and live with another man in his house. Thembi shared that he saw it would be best to take his wife so that they could look after their children together.
“This is a disappointed spirit but he’s willing to listen to what you guys have to say,” Thembi told the siblings. He advised them to ask for forgiveness and slaughter a chicken as a sacrifice.
“It means you need to talk to this chicken. You need to seek an apology through this chicken… The chicken will send the message of forgiveness.” She added that they would also have to tell their father everything that’s happening in the house.
Watch Dloz’Lami S2 every Tuesday at 22:00 on Moja Love, DStv channel 157, and express to DStv online. All episodes will be available to stream online until 23 November 2021.
